Ways to Memorialize a Pet's Ashes

There is no single right way to memorialize a pet — here are some common options to consider.

Choose an urn material and size

Urns come in materials like ceramic, wood, and metal, sized to fit your pet. Some providers include a basic urn by default, or you can purchase a specific design separately.

Place the urn in a memorial facility

If keeping an urn at home feels like too much, a pet memorial facility lets you place the ashes there and visit whenever you'd like. Storage terms and cost vary by facility, so check in advance.

Set up a small memorial space at home

Many owners set up a small space with a photo, a favorite toy, and the urn together. There's no fixed format — arrange it however feels comforting to you.

Consider scattering the ashes

If you'd like to return the ashes to nature through scattering, use a provider that offers a legally permitted location and method. Scattering ashes on your own in an unauthorized location should be avoided.

Consider a keepsake necklace or accessory

Some providers make small necklaces or accessories that hold a portion of the ashes. This can be a good option if you'd like to keep something with you at all times.

Remember there is no single correct way

There's no right or wrong way to memorialize a pet. Take your time choosing whatever feels most comfortable for both you and your memory of them.

There is no single right answer

Whether to keep ashes at home, place them in a memorial facility, or return them to nature is entirely your choice. Whichever you choose, what matters most is holding on to the time you shared with your pet.

Other keepsakes worth considering

Alongside the ashes themselves, many owners also keep photos, a paw print, or a short video as a complementary way to remember their pet. These smaller mementos can be comforting on their own, or paired with wherever you decide to keep the ashes.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to keep the urn at home?

Not at all. Placing it in a memorial facility, scattering the ashes, or another option are all valid — choose whatever feels most comfortable to you.

Can I scatter ashes anywhere I like?

No. Scattering ashes in an unauthorized location can cause problems, so it should be done through a provider that offers a legally permitted location and process.