A handful of display filters worth memorizing
A few expressions cover most day-to-day use: ip.addr==192.168.1.10 isolates all traffic to or from one device, tcp.port==443 narrows things to HTTPS traffic, http shows only HTTP requests and responses, and dns shows only DNS lookups. Combining filters with "&&" (and) or "||" (or) lets you narrow things down even further.
Wireshark is not the only option
Wireshark's graphical interface is the easiest way to explore captured traffic, but tcpdump, a command-line packet capture tool built into most Linux and Mac systems, is often faster for a quick check on a remote server where a GUI is not available -- you can also save a tcpdump capture to a file and open it later in Wireshark for deeper analysis.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I only see my own computer traffic, or my neighbor too?
On a typical switched wired network, you will generally only see traffic to and from your own device by default. Depending on the network structure -- like being on the same Wi-Fi router as others -- a wider range of traffic can sometimes be visible, which is exactly why you should only ever capture on a network you are authorized to monitor.
Is using Wireshark illegal?
The tool itself is a legitimate network diagnostic program. What matters is how it is used: running it for diagnostics on a network and device you own or have explicit permission for is fine, but intercepting someone else's traffic without consent can be illegal.