How to Manage Message Requests on Instagram

Tap each step to follow along in order.

  1. Open your DM inbox

    Tap the paper-airplane message icon at the bottom of Instagram.

  2. Tap "Requests" at the top

    Tapping the "Requests" link above your inbox shows messages from people you do not follow.

  3. Read the message, then accept, delete, or block

    Open the message to see its content, then tap "Accept" to continue the conversation, or "Delete" or "Block" if you would rather not.

  4. Check the hidden requests folder too

    Messages that look like spam may be automatically sorted into a separate "Hidden Requests" folder, so it is worth checking there occasionally too.

Keep strangers out of your main inbox

Messages from people who do not follow you are kept separate instead of mixing straight into your main inbox, so you can screen unwanted contact before it ever reaches you.

Adjust who can message you at all

Beyond managing individual requests, checking your message privacy settings lets you decide in advance whether anyone, only people you follow, or no one outside your network can send you a request in the first place.

Frequently Asked Questions

Will someone know if I decline their message request?

No -- deleting or ignoring a request does not send any notification to the other person, so they will not know you saw and dismissed it.

Can I unblock someone I blocked by mistake?

Yes -- going to that account's profile and selecting "Unblock" restores the ability for them to find your profile and send messages again.