How to turn SQM on in your own router
Look for a menu labeled QoS, SQM, or "Smart Queue Management" in your router's admin settings, usually under a Network or Advanced tab. Once you find it, set the upload and download bandwidth limits to roughly 85-95% of your line's real, tested speed rather than the plan's advertised number β leaving that small headroom is what lets the router actually manage the queue instead of just filling it. If your current router's firmware doesn't offer this menu at all, open-source firmware such as OpenWrt, or a newer router built around a modern queue algorithm, is the more direct fix.
Ping and console matchmaking issues are often related
If you want to check raw latency by itself, separate from bufferbloat, running a basic ping test to a nearby, well-known server gives you a baseline idle latency number to compare against your loaded-latency results. On game consoles specifically, a restrictive NAT type can cause similar-looking symptoms β trouble joining matches or connecting to other players β even when bufferbloat is not the culprit, so if matchmaking problems persist after fixing your queue management, checking your console's NAT type setting is the next logical step.
Frequently Asked Questions
Will upgrading to a faster internet plan fix this?
Increasing your throughput can reduce how often your connection gets saturated, which helps somewhat, but it doesn't remove the underlying cause β an oversized buffer. A queue management setting like SQM is a more direct fix.
Can I fix this without replacing my router?
Some newer routers already ship with a modern queue algorithm active by default, but many older routers or carrier-issued modems don't support SQM at all. In that case, switching to a router that supports SQM, or flashing open-source firmware that does, is the practical solution.