Two stitches, endless patterns
The overwhelming majority of knitting patterns, no matter how intricate the finished item looks, are built entirely from combinations and sequences of the knit and purl stitch. Learning to knit and purl comfortably and consistently is the single biggest step toward reading and following most beginner and intermediate patterns.
Tension takes practice, not talent
New knitters' stitches are often uneven or too tight at first, which is a near-universal part of learning rather than a sign of doing something fundamentally wrong. Tension typically evens out naturally with repetition as your hands settle into a consistent motion.
Frequently Asked Questions
Should I learn knitting or crochet first?
They are different crafts using different tools (two needles versus a single hook) and neither is a prerequisite for the other, so the choice mainly comes down to which finished look and technique appeals to you more.
What is the easiest first project?
A simple garter-stitch scarf, worked entirely in the knit stitch, is one of the most commonly recommended first projects, since it only requires one stitch technique and forgives uneven tension better than more complex patterns.