Attachment Style Quiz

Answer 6 short questions to find your attachment style in relationships. Takes about 1 minute.

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What is an attachment style?

Attachment theory explains that the attachment patterns formed with our primary caregivers in childhood tend to show up again in our romantic relationships and other bonds as adults. Understanding your own attachment style can help you notice emotional patterns that keep repeating in your relationships.

Can your attachment style change?

Yes. Attachment style isn't a fixed trait you're born with β€” it can shift over time based on your relationship experiences. Accumulating stable, secure experiences can gradually move anxious or avoidant tendencies closer to secure.

Frequently Asked Questions

Two styles scored about the same for me.

It's completely natural for traits from multiple styles to appear together, and different tendencies can show up depending on the situation or relationship.

Does this result fully explain my relationships?

No β€” this quiz is a reflective tool meant to support self-understanding, and real relationships are shaped by many more factors than any single quiz can capture.